Though she's only 2 1/2 years old, Tessa Evans recognized
right away that the baby - with his wide eyes and toothless grin - was unlike
anyone else she'd ever seen before, except in the mirror. Fascinated, she
reached out to 7-month-old Eli Thompson and touched him where his nose should
be. Then she touched her own face in the same spot. It was the first time the
toddler had seen someone else who looked like herself.
Both children were born with arhinia, an extremely rare
facial anomaly.
When Tessa was born in Ireland without a nose, doctors were
perplexed - and understandably so, as the condition affects only one in 197
million people. Tessa's mom, Grainne Evans (pronounced "Grahn-ya"),
felt alone and hopeless, and so she began reaching out via Facebook to others
with ahrinia. She created a closed group for the approximately 50 others worldwide
with the condition.
Two years later, when Eli was born at South Baldwin Hospital
in Foley and immediately transported to USA Children's and Women's Hospital in
Mobile, his mother, Brandi McGlathery, was similarly frustrated. But within
days, Eli's grandfather, Bobby Thompson, had found Tessa's Facebook page,
"Tessa; Born Extraordinary," and, through that, they found Tessa's
mother, Grainne.
Soon, Grainne became a mentor to Brandi and an invaluable
source of information for Eli's family, despite the fact that she lives more
than 4,000 miles away, on the other side of the Atlantic Ocean. "Just
about everything we learned in the early days was from Grainne," said
Sharon Thompson, Eli's grandmother. "Her goal was that she wanted the next
child born with this condition to find the group - and we did."
During the first weekend of October, Eli and Tessa met in
Atlanta. Eli's grandparents had already planned a trip from their home in
Silverhill to visit relatives there. Unbeknownst to them, Tessa's father,
Nathan Evans, a bartender at Mary's Bar in Magherafelt, Ireland, had won a trip
to Atlanta in a Coca-Cola Signature Serve contest.
When Brandi learned that the Evanses were going to be in
Atlanta the same weekend as the Thompsons, she helped arrange their meeting
even though she wasn't able to go to on the weekend trip because of her work
schedule.
Sharon knew just the place: Chama Gaucha Brazilian
Steakhouse. The two families met there and had a long, leisurely dinner. Before
long, Tessa had fallen asleep, and then Eli followed suit - but not before
having his soft, blond head stroked over and over by his new friend.
"Tessa bonded with Eli immediately," Sharon said. "She made the
connection between them."
The trip to Atlanta marked the Evanses' first time visiting
the United States as a family, and it was also the first time Tessa has been on
an "aeroplane," as Grainne called it, for a non-hospital-related
journey, she said.
Under the treatment of a doctor in London, Tessa has
undergone surgery using 3D printing technology to place a tiny prosthesis under
the skin to form a nose-like bump. Over the years, she will have more surgeries
with increasingly larger implants as the rest of her grows.
"They're a wonderful family," said Sharon of the
Evanses. "Their whole approach with Tessa has given us such comfort."
For example, the Thompsons watched Tessa remove her own, hot
pink passy muir ("speaking valve") that covers her trach so that she
could babble on like any other toddler. "If she takes the trach out, she
breathes out of her mouth, so why panic?" Sharon said.
Unlike other children who have tracheotomies, Eli and Tessa
have a working airway, through their mouths. For them, the trach is there so
they can eat without having to breathe through their mouths at the same time…
"Eli loves everybody," Sharon said. "If you
greet him with a smile, he beams at you. He's such a happy baby."
"When you're
looking at him, you're looking at a gift from God," said Julie. "Any
sadness in your heart just melts away. He makes you realize what's
important."
"Everyone gets that feeling from him," said
Sharon. "It's amazing."
http://www.al.com/news/mobile/index.ssf/2015/10/when_eli_the_baby_without_a_no.html
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An Alabama boy who was born without a nose and had gained a
legion of online supporters with his smiles and fist bumps died on Saturday
(6/3/17), three months after celebrating his second birthday.
Jeremy Finch on Sunday
We lost our little buddy last night. I'll never be able to
make sense of why this happened, and this will hurt deeply for a long time. But
I'm so blessed to have had this beautiful boy in my life! He finished his race
a lot earlier than we would have liked, but it was God's time to bring him back
home. I'll forever look forward to seeing him at the gates of Heaven waiting on
me to give me another one of his famous fist bumps! I love you little man. Rest
in peace with my Father.
http://www.foxnews.com/health/2017/06/05/miracle-baby-born-without-nose-dies-at-age-2-family-says.html
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