To parents of teenagers, it often feels like their mere
presence annoys their children. But for D'Ann Searls, it is a fact.
"It's kind of a joke, right? You say, 'I can't even
breathe around them,'" the Naperville, Illinois, mom of two told TODAY
Parents. "Well, for me, literally — I can't."
When Searls took her 13-year-old daughter Avery to the
pediatric neurology clinic at Northwestern Medicine in Chicago 10 months ago, it
was because Avery, who has Tourette syndrome, found it physically painful to be
in the same room as her mom.
Even the way Searls breathed or talked made Avery's body
tense and jerk involuntarily, leaving her in pain so severe she would miss
school to recover.
Avery was diagnosed with Tourette syndrome at the age of 8…
A year and a half ago, Avery's tics — which included
shoulder-rolling, back-arching, eye-blinking, and mimicking, among others —
took an unusual turn: Some of them began to be triggered by the presence of her
own mother.
It began with Avery's need for her mother to say exactly the
words she expected her to say. "If I asked her something and I wanted her
to say 'Yes,' and she said 'Sure' instead, I would do a tic with that,"
explained Avery.
Then, her mother's breathing began causing Avery to tic.
"I'm very aware of my tics, and sometimes when my mom would breathe, I
would yell at her to stop. I knew it was causing my tics," said Avery.
To an observer, it might appear that Avery and her mom had a
troubled relationship, but Avery said that the fact that her mom caused her
tics was in fact because she felt so close to Searls. "I don't have
control over my body, so I want everything else to be controlled, and I am so
close to my mom that included her," she said.
When Avery's tics were at their worst, she couldn't look at
her mother or talk to her. It was challenging for her to even be in the same
room with her. For her mom, it was "really hard, because I wanted to be
there for her."
The Searls tried everything to help Avery: holistic doctors,
medication, elimination diets, neurofeedback, acupuncture, supplements.
Finally, they found the clinic at Northwestern Medicine where Mindy Meyer, a
pediatric nurse practitioner, has treated hundreds of children with tics like
Avery's using Comprehensive Behavioral Intervention for Tics (CBIT).
CBIT is a non-drug alternative treatment that uses
behavioral therapy to teach children how to manage tics on their own.
"We work through one tic at a time, and the kids drive
it," Meyer told TODAY Parents. "They pick the tic that bothers them
the most and causes them the most problems."
"The first thing we have to do is get to know the tic
extremely well, which is a challenge, because when someone is diagnosed with
tics and they are not doing CBIT, they ignore the tics. That's what you do to
cope," she explained.
Meyer helps the children think through and identify every
aspect of the tic — when it happens the most, any emotions attached to the tic,
and what the specific urge is that precedes it. "It's awareness
training," Meyer said.
Once a child understands the tic's traits and can catch it
before it happens, Meyer teaches them to use a "competing response"
to stop the tic from being able to occur along with deep breathing techniques
to help keep them calm.
If the tic is shoulder-rolling, for instance, she teaches
the child to hold their arms with their elbows out in a way that prevents them
from making that particular movement with their shoulders. If the tic is
coughing, she teaches the child to identify when the urge to cough happens and
to keep their mouth closed and breathe through their nose until the urge
passes.
Meyer focuses solely on tics, but many of her patients also
see therapists to address mental and emotional aspects of their condition
concurrently with CBIT.
Though CBIT has helped hundreds of children in Meyers's
clinic, the Tourette Association of America warns that the fact that tics can
be managed with the help of behavioral therapy does not mean tics are easily
controlled without medication.
"There is concern that families, co-workers, and
teachers will read about CBIT and conclude that tics are willful and easily
controlled," the association wrote on its website. "We have known for
years that this conclusion is incorrect and harmful to people with tics.
Expecting people to 'stop ticcing' or treating them as if tics are done 'on
purpose' increases distress and triggers efforts to voluntarily suppress tics,
which is ineffective and leads to greater impairment."
Meyer's success rate, she estimates, is 98%. Most of her
patients are able to work through their tics in a matter of months, and with
the CBIT training, they are able to help themselves when new tics arise.
Tourette syndrome is incurable, but it is, Meyer stresses, manageable.
Though Avery's case has unique elements and is more complicated
than most, she has been able to work through 20 of her 26 tics in the past 10
months — and after a lot of work, she and her mother can now go shopping
together, have conversations, and enjoy each other without the pain that
accompanied their interactions just a year ago.
Despite her struggles with Tourette syndrome, Avery has
lived her life, said her mom. "She's a great volleyball player," she
said.
"I used to be embarrassed. I wouldn't go places, I couldn't
look at my brother or mother. It's gotten so much better," said Avery.
"We can be in the same room. It's not like her breathing is awful to me
anymore."
Despite the toll her condition has taken on her emotionally
and physically, Avery has persisted. "She has lived her life. She has not
let it stop her, even though it has been so hard. I am so proud of her for
that," Searls said.
Avery wants others to know that although Tourette syndrome
is a very difficult part of her life, it does not define her. "Everyone is
different in their own way. Tourette syndrome is just a little part of
me," she said. "I play volleyball, I have a lot of friends, I do a
bunch of things.
"There is hope," she said. "I want everyone
to know that. No matter who you are or what you have."
https://www.today.com/parents/teen-tourette-syndrome-tics-triggered-mom-uses-cbit-t154744
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